April 20, 2015
You get disappointed and you often wonder what’s underneath your disappointment? You wanted your favourite dish at a restaurant, and they’ve run out. You invest tons of time, $ and energy into a project, and it fails. You don’t get the raise. You don’t pass the test. You’re shocked, and hurt by a close friend’s […]
Read MoreOctober 24, 2014
How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable Recently I came across a free documentary called “Beyond Right and Wrong”. It addresses situations of unspeakable acts that are considered by anyone to be unforgivable. Do you have someone in your life you cannot forgive yet you’re still considering to forgive the unforgivable. The title immediately struck me […]
Read MoreOctober 2, 2013
Do you believe in unconditional love? There seems to be a widespread acceptance that love in our relationships will inevitably become “I need to say and do ______ to meet someone’s expectations, not irritate, sadden, hurt, disappoint, or anger someone”. And vice versa…“you should be, need to be, must be ______ or I won’t be […]
Read MoreSeptember 6, 2013
When you put time and energy into someone whether it’s in the form of positive intentions, gift giving, staying in touch or doing anything for someone you care about or want to please, but what you receive back isn’t what you expected, and avoiding disappointment seems challenging? In our lives we create our experiences based on […]
Read MoreFebruary 8, 2013
In our lives we will be facing disappointment. Something happens that doesn’t meet our expectations. Last week I faced one of those times as I sat with close friends in nervous anticipation of being aired on National TV for the first time on the OWN network..and then it happened. I wasn’t there. What happened? I […]
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