{"id":8174,"date":"2021-08-30T05:16:02","date_gmt":"2021-08-30T12:16:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/?p=8174"},"modified":"2023-03-22T10:10:22","modified_gmt":"2023-03-22T10:10:22","slug":"the-way-we-lose-our-way-guidance-back-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/the-way-we-lose-our-way-guidance-back-home\/","title":{"rendered":"The Way We Lose Our Way &#038; Guidance Back Home"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I always wondered how people lose their way and how they could get guidance to return.<\/p>\n<p>I used to believe that the opposite of the truth was a lie.<\/p>\n<p>It was the way we lose our way.<\/p>\n<p>If someone having a conflict was telling the truth, the other was presumably lying.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>It was a trap so many of us fall into: If I am right, then you must be wrong.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yet the idea of \u201cwhat isn\u2019t true being a lie\u201d is not necessarily true!<\/p>\n<p>We tell our children from day 1 to \u201ctell the truth\u201d, and proceed to create an environment where they will lie to you. That is, until you discover it is how you show up that keeps them from sharing their truth.<\/p>\n<p>When do any of us keep secrets?\u00a0When we\u2019re afraid of how someone will react with their negativity by judging us. If you don\u2019t want to be attacked negatively, controlled or condemned, you will be motivated to remain quiet.<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t lie necessarily because we\u2019ve done something wrong in our own eyes, but because of someone\u2019s else\u2019s version of wrong from their eyes. Who\u2019s right is not the relevant question to get to the heart of any matter.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s \u201cwhy are you seeing it that way? Can you please share more so I can understand you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a space we slip into of \u201cpro and anti\u201d that\u2019s like being in a dark room we create with very little light to see or hear the whole picture clearly.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a very common place we need to move away from.<\/p>\n<h2>Get Guidance to Reach The Path \u00a0to Living True to Yourself<\/h2>\n<p>As I dove into seeking what was true in my own life, I began to see how this erroneous mindset of \u201cduality\u201d where we judge keeps you in a tight box of self-deception. We get lost and confused trying to find answers to solve problems, only to find we are the ones creating them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em>\u201cThe opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth.\u00a0<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n\u2015 <span class=\"authorOrTitle\">Niels Bohr<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The invisible forces that cause us to lose our way? The destructive force of judgment between people that creates \u201cus against them\u201d and effectively blocks our ability to see that we can have our own different versions of truth that may both be correct.<\/p>\n<p>Truth becomes hidden in our separation, and better long term decisions for all of humanity get missed because we cannot find a unifying consciousness that is without judgment to hear one another.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, there are the few who dominate and control the narrative for many.<\/p>\n<p>Notice that this dynamic begins at home as parents with our children. It began when you were a child with your parents.<\/p>\n<p>What doesn\u2019t work as a parent? Trying to control your child with your agenda instead of creating a judgment-free space to make mistakes, and give guidance so a growing child can find their own unique way in the world.<\/p>\n<p><strong>We\u2019ve Lost Our Way When It Comes to Our Health<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It began decades ago\u2026<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s genetic and chemical engineering that\u2019s been tampering with the nutrients in our soil and food supply.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s become an accepted way our agricultural systems works. \u00a0Herbicides (toxins), and experimental workings on both plants and animals are part of the \u201cway it is\u201d today even though we know it\u2019s not healthy.<\/p>\n<p>This video by Dr. Zach Bush provides the bigger picture, and helped me understand this pandemic and the role of this experimental vaccine \u2013 both the positive and the negative.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"UGNOpgsJDInRc0Sben0wDv3U3tjvK1WzztZ4l6k7Eiu2afYQeEqIXLuQxWpXLi9yyKFN7SVkfChRTCAomm265qAZ1BaP5oxY\"><iframe title=\"Chemical Farming & The Loss of Human Health - Dr. Zach Bush\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Aw16LPVnNco?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>We know there are toxins in our food after glyphosate use exploded in 1996 when Monsanto introduced \u201cRoundup Ready\u201d crops. These genetically modified seeds were immune to glyphosate\u2019s toxic effects. Herbicide is sprayed on the fields, and it only kills weeds, while the crops continued to grow.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s why you will look for \u201cNon-GMO\u201d (without genetic engineering) on food labels, and buy organic food when given the opportunity. There\u2019s an inherent knowing that \u201cnature knows best\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps like us, you\u2019re growing some veggies and visiting local farmer\u2019s markets more often? I\u2019ve begun <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/wash-fruits-vegetables_l_5ce4566ae4b06f64624c1f91\">soaking my fruits <\/a>with baking soda to help remove any pesticides.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-8208 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Hot-peppers-zucchini-tomotoesocra-brussel-sprouts-artichoke-300x240.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"348\" height=\"278\" srcset=\"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Hot-peppers-zucchini-tomotoesocra-brussel-sprouts-artichoke-300x240.jpg 300w, https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Hot-peppers-zucchini-tomotoesocra-brussel-sprouts-artichoke-1024x819.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Hot-peppers-zucchini-tomotoesocra-brussel-sprouts-artichoke-768x614.jpg 768w, https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Hot-peppers-zucchini-tomotoesocra-brussel-sprouts-artichoke-1536x1229.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Hot-peppers-zucchini-tomotoesocra-brussel-sprouts-artichoke-600x480.jpg 600w, https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Hot-peppers-zucchini-tomotoesocra-brussel-sprouts-artichoke.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 348px) 100vw, 348px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For years, I\u2019ve tried to reduce the toxins in everything we consume from the laundry detergent to the shampoos, even the candles I burn.<\/p>\n<p>When you think about how our immune system works, and what is going into our bodies, a bigger picture emerges. Autoimmune diseases have been on a sharp incline ever since toxins and chemical farming got introduced to our lives.<\/p>\n<p>Our bodies don\u2019t like foreign toxins, and must adapt somehow. Life has it\u2019s own evolution, and we are bigger part of it than you may realize.<\/p>\n<p>We all know someone with rheumatoid arthritis, celiac disease, irritable bowel syndrome, lupus, type 1 diabetes, or multiple sclerosis. The increasing prevalence of autoimmune diseases are closely associated with what we\u2019ve allowed into our bodies over the past few decades.<\/p>\n<p>It takes time to see long-term damage so whatever we decide to put into our system that may appear \u201csafe and effective for all\u201d today in the short-term is likely going to have unknown long term effects.<\/p>\n<p>The question is \u2013 are these effects something you\u2019re willing to risk creating? Does it have to be for everyone knowing there is going to be some damage given our history, knowledge, and what\u2019s being suppressed?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Statistics for the Covid Vaccine<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The media is filled with one dominant narrative right now that has many of us believing that the Covid vaccines is \u201cone and only solution\u201d to our health with this pandemic.<\/p>\n<p>What is the real risk for you at your age with your health history of dying from Covid?<\/p>\n<p>What about your children? Right now I\u2019m facing a dilemma. Do my children take an experimental vaccine so they can attend their University classes now that it\u2019s been mandated?<\/p>\n<p>Do they stay home or take covid tests to attend some classes? It will be their decision in the end, but I\u2019ve been educating them for years and they believe their own healthy immune system is best left alone to battle whatever shows up even the delta variant.<\/p>\n<p>I had the ability to wait, and I know some people do not given their circumstances.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m looking for the long-term data before I rush into a short-term solution so I can help with the long-term impact. On Aug 26th this large\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencemag.org\/news\/2021\/08\/having-sars-cov-2-once-confers-much-greater-immunity-vaccine-no-infection-parties\">study from Israel<\/a>\u00a0showed:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cthe natural immune protection that develops after a SARS-CoV-2 infection offers considerably more of a shield against the Delta variant of the pandemic coronavirus than two doses of the Pfizer-BioNTech vaccine. People who once had a SARS-CoV-2 infection were much less likely than never-infected, vaccinated people to get Delta, develop symptoms from it, or become hospitalized with serious COVID-19.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>We\u2019ve known for the last century that for many infectious diseases, naturally acquired immunity is more powerful than vaccine-induced immunity and often lasts a lifetime.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We now know the effects of the vaccine wane over time so a 3rd booster, and after that? Will people just keep getting more shots for the rest of their lives?<\/p>\n<p>If there\u2019s one thing I\u2019ve learned about our mind, body and soul its that we barely know ourselves and what we\u2019re capable of healing. Hypnosis and past life training taught me the power of your beliefs through the energy of your own thoughts and its vibrational frequency.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve seen unbelievable miracles when it comes to our capacity to heal ourselves knowing that we are made up of energy. This is an entire field of medicine! It requires inner work, and a strong inner foundation.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s What We Know Numberwise<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Data released by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) showed that between Dec. 14, 2020 and Aug. 20, 2021, a total of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.medalerts.org\/vaersdb\/findfield.php?TABLE=ON&GROUP1=CAT&EVENTS=ON&VAX=COVID19\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">623,343 total adverse events<\/a> have been reported to the Vaccine Adverse Event Reporting System (VAERS) for the Covid Vaccine, which includes 13,627 deaths, and 17,794 permanent disabilities.<\/p>\n<p>So 31,421 people have voluntarily submitted data after getting this vaccine that they are now dead or permanently disabled. Yes, its \u201crare\u201d given how many millions have not had the vaccine, but knowing this is what happens, deciding on this risk given a healthy child, don\u2019t we deserve the freedom to choose what goes into your own body?<\/p>\n<p>According to <a href=\"https:\/\/health-infobase.canada.ca\/covid-19\/epidemiological-summary-covid-19-cases.html?stat=num&measure=deaths&map=hr#a2\">Government of\u00a0Canada<\/a>, there have been 16 children under the age of 19 who have died from Covid-19, and 68 from ages 20-29. I\u2019m focused on age and death for my children in terms of <em>their risk, but also for all children whose lives are ahead of them my heart is torn.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m faced with a mandated vaccine so my children can attend University at their ages 19, 19 and 21. Given these figures, would you not want the choice to say \u201cno thank you\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>It is RARE for a child or young person to die from Covid, and it\u2019s rare for a young person to die from the Covid Vaccine, but FEAR of death is what is now mandating a vaccine for all healthy people regardless of age, and their existing health.<\/p>\n<p>Does that make sense to you? These are pieces that need to be questioned.<\/p>\n<p>The WHO still does not recommend the vaccine for children under 18, and there\u2019s rushed FDA approval for 12+ years?<\/p>\n<p>The biggest problem is our hospitals being overrun with delta variant cases with insufficient resources to take care of all those needing hospital care. The vaccine is needed for some at high risk for sure.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But vaccinating everyone who have such low risk of serious injury or death with a \u201cone size fits all\u201d?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Why are we not assessing risk by age, and recommending appropriate measures?\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><i>Why aren\u2019t we using existing proven safe drugs (eg. ivermectin) and\u00a0other treatments that are\u00a0showing positive effects to both treat and prevent Covid?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a discussion on the <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/3j7am9kjMrk\">case for ivermectin<\/a>\u00a0by Dr. John Campbell who supports the vaccine. I\u2019ve heard many firsthand stories of this proven safe inexpensive drug working well for covid patients yet its been <em>forbidden<\/em> to prescribe?<\/p>\n<p>We have so much conflicting information and can\u2019t seem to find space to hear both sides from ALL the experts so how can the public even make a decision? I have heard multiple stories of success so using it with medical supervision just seems like common sense.<\/p>\n<p>Until you look at the mainstream media\u2026where the pro-anti confusion lives, and common sense isn\u2019t so common.<\/p>\n<p>Where are the basic recommendations to remind us to boost our natural immune system? Vitamin C & D (sunshine!), a probiotic, practices that reduce your stress, eating healthy and exercising all boost what we naturally carry around.<\/p>\n<p>How do we believe so easily that a manufactured vaccine is the one and only solution for everyone instead of what we know to be true with our inherent immune system?<\/p>\n<p><strong>FEAR can be a powerful motivator down a dark hole.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean the vaccine isn\u2019t necessary for those who are older, at high risk for severe symptoms and death, but\u00a0I believe we\u2019ve forgotten about the power of LOVE we hold within ourselves.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Our Present Situation<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been listening and\u00a0watching in disbelief as courageous scientists, MDs, virologists, immunologists, microbiologists with decades of experience and extensive credentials share their concerns about the Covid Vaccine, and what else we can also be doing.<\/p>\n<p>I am shocked at how fear in our global\u00a0media can create one\u00a0dominant narrative to\u00a0condemn (judge) and silence reasonable\u00a0questioning on the other side.<\/p>\n<p>When Dr. Francis Christian, a Saskatchewan surgeon and professor was fired after he tried to alert his colleagues to the risks of the vaccine for children, I honestly felt like we\u2019re going backwards in time.<\/p>\n<p>Why would anyone share their thoughts in this kind of crippling environment?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m so thankful for those who do. Here\u2019s Dr. Ryan Cole a Pathologist, trained at Mayo Clinic sharing his work on early treatment for Covid:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bitchute.com\/video\/NLNNXKKqgMzo\/\">https:\/\/www.bitchute.com\/video\/NLNNXKKqgMzo\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This is the most published cardiologist in history speaking to the Texas Senate on how we can be effectively\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=QAHi3lX3oGM\">treating Covid<\/a> in addition to the Vaccine and how people falsely believe there is no treatment available when so much is actually available.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s mind boggling what he shares that is not available to the public in the media.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Judgment Clouds Our Vision<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve often had this one recurring thought over the last decade as I\u2019ve been discovering what\u2019s true for me: <em>\u201cWhy don\u2019t people know about this?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I realized a long time ago the \u2018mainstream media\u2019 is the last place where truth lives and the first place most people believe it exists. I used to think \u201cif that were true, it would be in the news.\u201d \u00a0Nope, that\u2019s exactly where it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Truth is between the spaces, in the small conversations, in the few who work behind the scenes. It\u2019s in the still small voice that knows what\u2019s right for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The divide of Pro vs. Anti has each side using its $, influence, position \u2013 all its resources to control the narrative to convince \u201ctheir side\u201d while blaming the other. The whole truth never finds its way to the surface.<\/p>\n<p>Relationships becomes ME against YOU.<\/p>\n<p>Society becomes\u00a0US at war with THEM. Shaming, guilting, bullying, punishment, and the loss of our freedom is the price we all pay.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s Such a Strange Time We Live in<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When the pandemic was announced in March 2020\u00a0\u00a0\u2013 we were all facing fear of this unknown Coronavirus that turned out to be a type of virus scientists are very familiar with \u00a0\u2013 just not this particular strain.<\/p>\n<p>Last week I was guided to watch a relatively unknown documentary \u201cEating Animals\u201d (2018) as I was putting together this article. \u00a0It gave me another \u201cmissing link\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>What has gone on for so long with the control and contamination of our Earth\u2019s soil, and food is a direct parallel to how the Pharma industry works with medicine, and how this pandemic is playing out with our health.<\/p>\n<p><em>When the farmers so close to nature could easily recognize the damage being done from the pollution, antibiotics, hormones, and cruelty in factory farming to accurately predict this virus pandemic was coming that we now face \u2013 I was quietly stunned.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>We want things to be convenient in our fast paced world where we expect solutions faster than ever before, and it seems we\u2019re willing to give up our own freedom for the short-term gain.<\/p>\n<p>Short-term pain for long-term gain. We are now doing the opposite heading into what\u2019s going to be long-term pain.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Understanding How Everything is Connected<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The emotional journey I felt watching \u201cEating Animals\u201d was the opposite experience seeing the \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.apricotlanefarms.com\">Biggest Little Farm<\/a>\u201d that shows how nature works far more abundantly without any toxins at all. It\u2019s the story of how biodynamic agriculture could be working for all of us to maintain our health.<\/p>\n<p>This natural cycle of how farming could work integrating Mother Nature and the animal kingdom\u2019s interconnectedness was shared from the spiritual work of Rudolf Steiner (1861-1925).<\/p>\n<p>Steiner was an Austrian philosopher, social reformer, architect, and esotericist who was also clairvoyant, and someone I recognize as clairaudient when you see the volume and content of his spiritual writings.<\/p>\n<p>Interestingly, one of his books discussed whether humans have freedom, which I\u2019m now questioning in <i><a title=\"The Philosophy of Freedom\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Philosophy_of_Freedom\">The Philosophy of Freedom<\/a>. \u00a0He suggests that freedom is dependent on a person bridging the gap between ideals and the constraints of external reality with action being inspired by moral imagination.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Today it certainly feels like we\u2019re needing to come together through a collective moral imagination!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cCourage is following your conscience instead of following the crowd.\u201d Eric Harvey<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a spiritual part in each of us that knows what\u2019s right from wrong. It sees the bigger picture and recognizes when both sides aren\u2019t telling the whole truth.<\/p>\n<p>We need to move away from \u201cus verses them\u201d to hear what\u2019s going on from a place of compassion, non-judgment, and willingness to listen to opposing views.<\/p>\n<p><i>When life hits us with a problem, we need to slow down, and also consider what\u2019s sustainable. We want the easy convenient button so we can get on with life, but will it be \u201cone pill\u201d forced on everyone as the way to handle this crisis? <\/i><\/p>\n<p>If we don\u2019t look back to recognize the\u00a0damage we\u2019ve\u00a0been doing, we\u2019ll be stepping forward into further damage we\u2019re creating, and its our children who will pay the price.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever decision we each make with this vaccine is right for you. We all choose based on what\u2019s best in our circumstances, and it includes my husband who is double vaccinated as he travels alot for work.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Evaluation Versus Judgment<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I go to <a href=\"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/reflective-wisdom-on-the-afterlife-a-tribute\/\">spiritual wisdom<\/a> when I\u2019m feeling lost and looking for answers. This is coming from an ascendant teacher who lived on a world far more advanced spiritually than ours. His name is Samuel, and I\u2019ve found him to be very wise.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cA difficult matter to understand is the difference between judgment and evaluation, such a human dilemma.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>You live on an evolutionary world where potential deceit occurs on a daily basis. Life on an evolutionary world is synonymous with taking chances good or bad, making acquaintances trustworthy or very much otherwise.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Right where you are, you must trust your intuition, your inner voice, to evaluate without judgment.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It is important, and righteous behavior, to be open, to have the wisdom and intelligence, prudence of mind and common sense to see a proposition that may go pear shaped, a situation that may endanger you physically or financially, and yet you are to be aware and evaluate how this may affect you and yours, not ever judge.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>To clarify: It is not your task to analyze the other party, demean them in your mind or make an announcement of their shortcomings, suggest the punishment to be meted out to the supposed offender.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It does you no good to harbor resentment towards another, who is also meant to be a progressing son or daughter of God, but perhaps nearer still to the very starting point towards perfection than you are. \u00a0In dwelling upon your judgment, a possible ruling, verdict or sentence for the wrongdoer, you are soiling the soul-mind-temple in which your Thought Adjuster dwells.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>In a world of monstrous inequity \u2013 hunger, lack of education and lack of opportunity, of misuse of political power, deceit and crime \u2013 a world almost devoid of mores and morality \u2013 it is difficult to be so forgiving as to not ever judge.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>For most it is a trial to even realize they are judging. Consider the importance of correct evaluation, and the wrong of judgment, which must be left to the Creator of all that is. Consider the shrewdness of the snake, the innocence of the dove.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>~Samuel, Daynal Institute, via George Barnard, March 3, 2010<\/p>\n<p>When talks of a vaccine began, I wanted to believe it was the answer for this deadly virus, but as I listened \u2013 I could see there were many pieces being ignored. When we\u2019ve lost our freedom to choose among reasonable alternatives \u2013 it is a precarious time we face.<\/p>\n<p>I grew up believing in one right answer, but I learned that problems are far more complex than meets the \u2018scientific\u2019 eye, and the best answers need to include \u2018spirituality\u2019 for the very fact that every human soul is different.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How can one thing ever apply to everyone?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Each of us is responsible for making our own decision for our own health without having to deal with the fears of other people judging us. I\u2019m so grateful for those willing to put themselves into what has now become a \u201clion\u2019s den\u201d to share their knowledge for those of us trying to navigate our way through this pandemic.<\/p>\n<p>I have hope and faith that as more studies and actual experiences are shared, we will get out of the dark place and into the light.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s all get guidance and move out of our own way, listen with patience, and non-judgment to hear all relevant sides so we can get back to the amazing lives we were meant to live.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I always wondered how people lose their way and how they could get guidance to return. I used to believe that the opposite of the truth was a lie. It was the way we lose our way. If someone having a conflict was telling the truth, the other was presumably lying. 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