{"id":4715,"date":"2016-01-25T09:13:20","date_gmt":"2016-01-25T16:13:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/\/?p=4715"},"modified":"2023-03-22T10:11:20","modified_gmt":"2023-03-22T10:11:20","slug":"what-are-synchronicties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/what-are-synchronicties\/","title":{"rendered":"What are Synchronicities?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Are you wondering what synchronicities are? Let me explain&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Last\u00a0Friday\u00a0evening\u00a0my husband asked &#8220;do you want\u00a0to watch an episode of Anthony Bourdin&#8217;s Parts Unknown\u00a0about\u00a0Iran?&#8221; Sure, I was curious, and besides\u00a0it was a show he loved:\u00a0great food ideas and exploring new places.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s &#8221;\u00a0<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/111380331\">the\u00a0episode<\/a><\/span>\u00a0&#8221; (40 minutes). Whatever ideas you had about Iran, I suspect they may\u00a0change after\u00a0watching this. I&#8217;m very aware of how our media is slanted towards its own\u00a0agenda, playing heavily on our fears, but I had no idea how much of a picture has\u00a0been painted of a people I knew relatively NOTHING about.<\/p>\n<p>What I couldn&#8217;t see was the total complexity here, extremes of joy, and beauty, mixed with sadness, and control. Their culture, traditions, and history they&#8217;ve had to face.<\/p>\n<p>I look at what we deal with in our own country, and that old cliche hits home. We are so much more similar than different facing our own struggles, and craziness.<\/p>\n<p>During the episode, Anthony spoke candidly with American Washington Post Correspondent, Jason Rezaian, and his wife about living in Iran the past 5 years. During filming of\u00a0the episode, Jason was\u00a0arrested, and by time it aired, he was still a prisoner after 10 weeks. My heart sank.<\/p>\n<p>I was so compelled to find out what happened to him, I quickly googled him, desperate to know\u00a0if\u00a0he&#8217;d been released. I found myself staring at a photo of him in\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2016\/01\/23\/world\/middleeast\/rezaian-family-departs-germany-us.html\">this article<\/a>\u00a0beside Jeff Bezos (founder of Amazon.com &amp; owner of Washington Post), whose private jet he&#8217;d just flown home in.<\/p>\n<p>The article was published\u00a0THE EXACT SAME DAY I&#8217;d watched the episode! Jason had\u00a0been in prison for a year and a half. It felt like a miracle seeing his relieved grin.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m often asked &#8216;what is a synchronicity&#8217;? For me, when I&#8217;m tapped into something meaningful that captures my attention. I&#8217;ll often see 11:11 pop up somewhere or a version of &#8220;11&#8221; like 3:11, seeing exit 111 on the highway, or this week having snapshot of our Charity Gala\u00a0appearing on page 11 in our local newspaper.<\/p>\n<p>I started seeing\u00a011:11\u00a0as a child; I suspect it was around the same time I had fallen at age 6 about 20 feet over a cliff on a bicycle, and lay unconscious beside a tree that happened to be growing from the side. It\u00a0saved me dropping another 40 feet to rocks below.<\/p>\n<p>Soon\u00a0after watching\u00a0this tv\u00a0episode, I glanced over to\u00a0see 11:11 on the\u00a0clock. I have NEVER seen it if I&#8217;m ever trying to look for it.\u00a0It&#8217;s a sign for me that &#8216;this is not your only reality&#8217; &#8211; this physical world that you see. There&#8217;s something bigger going on.<\/p>\n<p>A force that exists wanting me to pay attention because I&#8217;m noticing it at all. A synchronicity I can&#8217;t ignore. It&#8217;s asking me to slow down, and ask myself what&#8217;s real, and what&#8217;s an illusion?<\/p>\n<p>Who is the real enemy? Ourselves &#8211; when we do not choose to open our eyes. Where we don&#8217;t know where we&#8217;re completely blinded. When we simply fail to see the bigger picture.<\/p>\n<p>Having just written about being willing to see &#8220;both sides now&#8221; in my last post\u2026I\u00a0know I&#8217;m\u00a0being shown\u00a0just how true that\u00a0is. How anything negative I&#8217;d heard or seen in the media about Iran or read about had given me a very limiting\u00a0picture of how I assumed it must be living there.<\/p>\n<p>I\u00a0had\u00a0noticed how friendly, and genuinely happy anyone I&#8217;d met from Iran seemed to be. I assumed it was because they left their country! Mostly recently, it was my new dentist. She was fun, kind, and laughed\u00a0a\u00a0lot. \u00a0I certainly have a deeper respect for their culture, traditions, and history that makes them who they are.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, there are some completely insane things that go on, arrests without a fair trial, control over certain behaviours that don&#8217;t make sense, punishment that seems completely unreasonable (putting it mildly) &#8211; ways that I\u00a0hope will eventually change for the better, which applies to\u00a0our side of the world too.<\/p>\n<p>I see the Iranian people in their own country with wider eyes\u00a0now. I hope you will too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you wondering what synchronicities are? Let me explain&#8230; Last\u00a0Friday\u00a0evening\u00a0my husband asked &#8220;do you want\u00a0to watch an episode of Anthony Bourdin&#8217;s Parts Unknown\u00a0about\u00a0Iran?&#8221; Sure, I was curious, and besides\u00a0it was a show he loved:\u00a0great food ideas and exploring new places. Here&#8217;s &#8221;\u00a0the\u00a0episode\u00a0&#8221; (40 minutes). Whatever ideas you had about Iran, I suspect they may\u00a0change after\u00a0watching [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mo_disable_npp":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[56],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4715","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spirituality-serenity"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4715","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4715"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4715\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9381,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4715\/revisions\/9381"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}