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Believe It: <\/span><\/strong>Learning to forgive<\/a> and communicate forgiveness requires you to transcend your ego\u2019s need to be right, and make someone else wrong. In releasing judgment, you will free yourself from the energy of resentment, betrayal, anger, and hatred, and create space to live the love you deserve.<\/p>\n Be It:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n Release the illusion<\/span> that forgiveness means:<\/p>\n 1) You do nothing. Embrace the reality<\/span> that:<\/p>\n 1) You have 100% responsibility for what you choose to say, be, and do. So does everyone else. Do It:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n 1) SEE others as a product of their conditioning looking through their lens to create their experience<\/em> because that\u2019s who you are. Embrace<\/span> these words: High vibration energy of compassion and understanding<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Avoid<\/span> these words: Low vibration energy of projection, judgment, criticism<\/p>\n Demanding an apology means you are still attached to being right and are not ready to communicate forgiveness yet. Feeling disappointed\/sad someone doesn’t apologize for something that is destructive to your relationship is a genuine hurt reflecting you may not share similar values. \u00a0Say “I’m not ok with you not taking responsibility for (fill in destructive behaviour) that step on my values of…. ”<\/p>\n Please check out my latest book: Pebbles in the Pond<\/span> with transformational best-selling authors Arielle Ford<\/a>, and Marci Shimoff<\/a> \u00a0here<\/a>!! My chapter is called Finding Forgiveness.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Believe It: Learning to forgive and communicate forgiveness requires you to transcend your ego\u2019s need to be right, and make someone else wrong. In releasing judgment, you will free yourself from the energy of resentment, betrayal, anger, and hatred, and create space to live the love you deserve. Be It: Release the illusion that forgiveness […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mo_disable_npp":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[59],"tags":[86,71],"class_list":["post-1534","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-freedom-forgiveness","tag-forgiveness","tag-judgment"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1534","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1534"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1534\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9422,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1534\/revisions\/9422"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1534"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1534"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carolynhidalgo.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1534"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\n2) You let someone get away with destructive, or unloving behaviour with no consequences.
\n3) Saying sorry without taking responsibility.<\/p>\n
\n2) Everyone is doing their best at their own state of consciousness, and responds from this place.
\n3) You cannot change someone else, and can only be the change.<\/p>\n
\n2) Notice when you are thinking anyone SHOULD be and do the way you believe is \u2018right\u2019. Ask is it constructive or destructive to my values, and choose to stay, or let go.
\n4) Let go of the need to be right, and make others wrong.<\/p>\n\n
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