Resources for Living
Judgment-free

The journey of releasing judgment of ourselves and others is a spiritual practice. As we connect with our inner Spirit (a non-judgmental fragment of God) - we discover how to live authentically through patience, understanding, compassion, acceptance, forgiveness, mercy and a love that feels truly divine.

Carolyn's Articles

The Foundation of Love: Releasing Judgments and Expectations
How to Speak Your Mind Without Making Someone Wrong
10 Ways To Immediately Be Less Judgmental Of People You Disagree With
3 Steps To Forgiving Yourself — Even When The People You Hurt Won’t
Is It Synchronicity Or Psychosis? How To Tell The Difference
Why It’s Impossible To Love Someone Who Hates Themself
7 Tiny Ways To Truly Know If You’re In Real Love (And Not Just Lust)
Does Monogamy Make Sense If It Has To Be Enforced?
5 Tips For Taking A Break In A Relationship— And Does It Ever Work?
Why It’s Impossible To Love Someone Who Hates Themself

6 Secret Ways To Emotionally Connect With Your Teen

People With These 12 Personality Traits Make The Most Spiritually Connected Soulmates
If Someone Shows You These 6 Traits, They Have No Idea What Kindness Means
12 Powerful Ways Spirituality Can Ease The Pain Of Depression And Anxiety
30 Spiritual Quotes About Loving From Deepest Part of Your Soul
How To Protect Yourself From The Shame Other People Want You To Feel
The Red String Of Fate: What It Is & How To Find Your Thread
How To Heal Your Soul When You’ve Done Something You Regret
How To Know When The Time Is Right To Say ‘I Love You’ For The First Time
11 Ways To Become The Sort Of Person Who Can Sense Spirits
The Foundation of Love: Releasing Judgments and Expectations
How to Speak Your Mind Without Making Someone Wrong
10 Ways To Immediately Be Less Judgmental Of People You Disagree With
3 Steps To Forgiving Yourself — Even When The People You Hurt Won’t
Is It Synchronicity Or Psychosis? How To Tell The Difference
 
Why It’s Impossible To Love Someone Who Hates Themself
 
 
7 Tiny Ways To Truly Know If You’re In Real Love (And Not Just Lust)
 
How To Know When The Time Is Right To Say ‘I Love You’ For The First Time
 
 
5 Tips For Taking A Break In A Relationship— And Does It Ever Work?
 
6 Secret Ways To Emotionally Connect With Your Teen
People With These 12 Personality Traits Make The Most Spiritually Connected Soulmates
If Someone Shows You These 6 Traits, They Have No Idea What Kindness Means
12 Powerful Ways Spirituality Can Ease The Pain Of Depression And Anxiety
30 Spiritual Quotes About Loving From Deepest Part of Your Soul

Key Videos

Jill Bolte Taylor 
As a Harvard brain scientist, Jill describes her experience feeling connected to the “One consciousness” in midst of a stroke where her “left brain” went offline, and only her “right “creative” brain could function. 

Abraham-Hicks
How do you tell children the story of  Martin Luther King being shot so they feel empowered not afraid? The group “Abraham” answers brilliantly.

Constance Wu 

When her teacher didn’t believe she wrote a story, and put her down in front of others, the impact on her self-worth was devastating long-term. How we talk to children becomes their inner voice.

Brene Brown
The power of being vulnerable as the gateway to love, creativity and joy. Our fundamental need for connection depends on being authentic through vulnerability.

Ken Robinson
How our schools kill creativity by putting children into one box. “If you’re not prepared to be wrong, you’ll never come up with anything original.” 

 

Glennon Doyle Melton

Instead of avoiding pain, turn around and face it honestly. Pain is the birthplace of transformation to rise.

Julia Dhar 

3 techniques to reshape the way we talk to each other so we can disagreeing productively.

Julia Dhar
How to speak from a curious place for constructive conversations.

Simon Sinek 
How great leaders inspire change. Most people start with What they do, then How they do it, and rarely explain Why they do it. Inspiring leaders start with a compelling Why.

Prince EA 
Labels create separation – society teaches us to define ourselves and others by race, gender, and nationality, but these are external constructs that don’t define our essence.

 

Louie Swartzberg
Using time-lapse photography, Louie provides a visually stunning and heartfelt experience on the power of gratitude, mindfulness, and appreciating nature’s  beauty and everyday life.

Charles Eisenstein 
A group of advanced souls or lightworkers agreed to incarnate on Earth during a time of crisis, forgetting their divine origins, in order to help awaken humanity and guide the world toward a more loving and connected existence.

J.K. Rowling

Following your heart after hitting rock bottom led to fulfilling her passion for writing and tapping into her creativity.  

Mark Gungor

The huge differences between how men think and how women think is wild! Crucial understanding for finding unconditional love, harmony and laughter in relationships.

Elizabeth Gilbert

Understand creativity as a divine force—a “genius” who visits us where we need to show up and do the work. This mindset reduces fear, pressure, and self-doubt, making creative work more joyful and sustainable.

Steve Jobs

His 3 life lessons: trust your dots will connect going forward using intuition, do what you love, and time is limited so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.

Michael Bungay Stanier 

The 8 Irresistible Principles of Fun” offers timeless and wise guidance. Embracing these principles can lead to a more fulfilling and joyful life.

After Skool

Here’s WHY truth passes through 3 stages: 1st – it is ridiculed; 2nd – it is violently opposed, 3rd – it is accepted as self-evident.  The blind spots of intellectuals revealed with idealogical bias.

Novak Djokovic

The world’s top tennis player standing in his truth with absolute conviction based on his values of freedom of autonomy is perfectly expressed here. Strive to live by your own values without making anyone else wrong.

Warren Smith

A brilliant dialogue between a teacher and his student on how to think critically when he believes J.K. Rowling is transphobic based on a tweet she mad, and the false accusations people have made. 

Louise Hay Film
You Can Heal Your Life film based on her classic book with the same title. Power of thought, positive self-talk, mind-body, gratitude, acceptance, and forgiveness.

Wayne Dyer Film
The Shift film starring Wayne Dyer as himself. His teachings on the ego, power of now, living with purpose, spiritual fulfillment based on principles from Tao Te Ching & a Course in Miracles.

Michael Beckwith
A discussion on the power of setting intentions and how it can transform your life. How to align with your true purpose, use meditation and self-reflection in achieving clarity and grow your soul. 

Fantastic Fungi Film
Discover the essence of God in nature’s vast world of fungi and beauty of their role on our planet for life and death.

Akiane
Prodigy artist shares her painting of Jesus (seen in her visions). With a divine gift to paint since pre-schooler and raised without a religion.

Colton Burpo

At age 4, Colton underwent emergency surgery for a ruptured appendix and almost died. He later told his parents he visited heaven during the operation seeing Jesus, angels,  deceased grandfather, and miscarried sister he was not told about.

Tony Hseih 

How 10 core values including being open-minded, transparent, trustworthy, passionate, humble, and a little weird created record profitability at Zappos.com

Jonna Jinton
Swedish photographer,  and artist has a divine connection with nature living immersed in it. Her creativity, clarity and calm is an inspiration. Balancing stones is just one way she stays centred. 

Alan Watts
His wisdom is timeless. Brilliant spiritual teacher whose insights and perspective keeps you inspired, seeking truth, and wanting to know more about your Cosmic reality.

Dr Zach Bush, MD

We have destroyed our soil – Mother Earth and our bodies with chemicals. Once you see how nature was designed to work together from this brilliant MD, you’ll take back your health.

Alan Watts 

The wisdom of living without purpose is the secret to enjoying life.  Trust in nature where there’s risk or face the alternative where need control that leads to authoritarianism. 

Wayne Dyer
If you carry resentment about anyone for anything in your heart where you feel justified, it will cause you the despair. Judgment is the root of resentment. 

Mattie Stepanek 

A radiant soul, Mattie Stepanek was like an angel walking on earth. Wise beyond his years, he was a poet, peacemaker, and inspirational speaker. Though he passed at just 13, his legacy of love, hope, and the power of the human spirit continues to inspire the world.

Zach Sobiech

This 17-year-old was diagnosed with terminal bone cancer, yet his joyful and courageous spirit touched millions. His song “Clouds”—and the film of the same name—are powerful reminders of grace and resilience. As he wisely said, “You don’t need to find out you’re dying to start living.”

Oprah

Oprah’s experience of landing The Color Purple role illustrates the power of vibrational alignment in manifesting desires through purposeful intention, as well as the vital importance of surrendering and letting go of the outcome. Here’s the ‘HOW’ of co-creation.

Dr Mary Neal
This orthopedic spine surgeon had a profound near-death experience after drowning in a 1999 kayaking accident in Chile. Clinically dead for 30 minutes, she describes feeling enveloped in peace, meeting spiritual beings, and receiving insights about her life’s purpose. The experience transformed her view on life, faith, and the soul’s eternal nature.

Recommended Books

Early 20th Century Law of Attraction -Thought Creates Reality

Modern Law of Attraction Teachers -Thoughts You Give, Come Back

Classic Spiritual "Fiction"

Classic & Modern Mystics

Spiritual Healers

Near Death Experiences - Experiences of the Afterlife

Thought Leaders

Absolute Favs